Memories

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Saturday, 30-Aug-2008 22:16:00

Do you miss anyone right now? What past experiences with this person, or these persons, make it easy for you to miss them?

Post 2 by moyzey (i'm posting? huh?) on Sunday, 31-Aug-2008 17:06:01

omg wow.

Firstly, yeah, I miss someone, so terribly much, it physically hurts.

I couldn't possibly write down all the things I miss about her, her touch, her scent, her voice, mannerisms, just, everything that makes her who she is. I miss the alone times, I miss the social times. I miss the chats, the cuddling. I miss the special moments, the arguements. I miss the things we used to share, the things we used to fight over. I simply miss her, so much, and to think I had it once, and now I don't, makes the pain so much worse. I punnish myself every day with the memories...

Post 3 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Sunday, 31-Aug-2008 19:44:09

yes, i miss someone. i miss the way he makes me laugh, his voice, the way he makes me smile when i need one, how i felt when we would just be in each others presents by ourselves even if we weren't saying a word, but most of all, i miss his laugh. i kno it all sounds stupid, cause we live so far away from each other, and have never actually met or dated or anything, but, yeah i miss him a lot. i've tryed to see other people and to not miss him, but i just can't do it.

Post 4 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Monday, 01-Sep-2008 7:04:15

I miss someone very much.
I miss his touch, his voice, his never ending words of encouragement. I miss the good times and the bad. I just miss being held and cuddled and feeling protected and safe in his arms so much.

Post 5 by Morgan_Lynn (Account disabled) on Monday, 01-Sep-2008 18:13:51

hmm...
do I miss someonmesomeone?
yeah I do, now this is still three years back, but I still miss the hugs, the cunfriting werds he wuld say, how he would incorrege me... just miss it all, how I allways felt in his arms, i allways felt safe and loved.

Now, though, um....I'll tell this now, no matter how even though I might still miss him,, never again would i get with him, Yeah we're like brother and sister now, witch makes it eeven more groce, but he has gotin wayyyyyyy again i say wayyyy toooo gothic for my lieking. LOLOLOLOLOL!

but no seriusly, I miss the late night phone conversations, the "secret" things, the waking up on the phone and noing that we were still connected....I just miss it all.

morgan_Lynn

Post 6 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 01-Sep-2008 21:23:43

it doesn't matter how long ago you had that special person in your life, even if it was only months ago. if you miss someone, you miss them. i offern lay awake at night, just thinking about, and missing the person i miss.

Post 7 by TheAsianInvasion (The Zone's invader) on Friday, 28-Nov-2008 21:18:10

yep, I miss someone soooooo mutch it hurts. The conversations we used to have, hearing her sweet voice almost every single day, ...ok I'll stop now...

Post 8 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 3:00:10

missing someone who you had a close friendship/relationship with, really hurts a lot, and i kno they say time heels, but it really doesn't. i still miss someone a lot, and it has never stopped being hard or painful to not miss him. i think it's because they hold a special place in your heart, and mean the world to you, so when they aren't there anymore for some reason, we miss them and that's why it will always hurt.

Post 9 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 12:29:41

Yes, I miss someone very much. The memories are of wonderful conversations, plans, and love. I wish I could have those days back, even just for a little while.

Post 10 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 12:33:47

I miss his voice, laughter, storyes, compassion, warmth, encouraging words, but most of all, I miss, him. I miss what was, what was to come, and what might have been. And yes, it hurts teribly.

Post 11 by TheAsianInvasion (The Zone's invader) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 14:30:40

yeah, it does.

Post 12 by TheAsianInvasion (The Zone's invader) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 14:32:12

and I do wish I could have those days again. ah, good times

Post 13 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 18:09:55

i think the one thing that hurts the most, is that it ended before it even got a chance to begin.

Post 14 by TheAsianInvasion (The Zone's invader) on Saturday, 29-Nov-2008 23:02:25

awww, that sucks.

Post 15 by Inspired Chick (Zone BBS Addict) on Tuesday, 10-Feb-2009 17:45:47

yes I miss somoene so much that I'm crying as I am writing. I miss him talking to me, miss going ot him with my boyfriend problems, I wish he was still around for me. I miss him terribly.

Post 16 by Skyla (move over school!) on Thursday, 12-Feb-2009 1:00:48

To those of you who miss past lovers, you are entitled to your memories, but dwelling on them from a standpoint of wanting them back will only make you hurt more. The memories will end up torturing you. And also keep in mind that while there were good memories, there were bad memories, too. For all of us. But we tend to sensationalize people in hindsight, we imagine them as even more perfect if that were possible, but it's ultimately harmful. I know what it's like though, and in that sense, I empathize. Loss is so, so painful. And our language doesn't adequately describe the pain that follows.

Post 17 by Maiden of the Moonlight (Zone BBS is my Life) on Saturday, 14-Feb-2009 2:23:14

Yeah, I miss someone, well a lot of people, my uncle, my friend, my great-aunt, my dog, I could go on but it's pointless. I often do my best to just think about the fact that they want me to be happy, and dwelling on them passing isn't going to make me feel better. Obviusly, I wish they were here, but wishing isn't going to bring them here, so yeah. It's alright and, in my opinion, perfect natural to miss a past friend, lover, whatever, or someone who has passed away, so don't pretend you don't feel it because hiding from your emotions only makes them worse when they finally come out. I guess you shouldn't dwell on it, but you also shouldn't hide from it. Just my thoughts.

Post 18 by cumbiambera2005 (i just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 14-Feb-2009 4:26:16

Do I miss someone?
Hell yes! I do! i miss him so much it hurts!
I miss him more than anyone would ever know!
It seems life has no purpose, he took that all from me! I know it seems foolish, but it's just the truth. i had a life, even if it consisted of our arguing, and to have that taken from me in an instance is almost not worth continuing to live. I say "almost", because if there weren't still certain aspects of life I still enjoy, I dont know if I could be as alert as I am today. it's thanks to music, thanks to the blog, and thanks to the one I call my best friend, and also the nfb, that I can still call this my life!
It's not easy to wake up day by day, knowing that I'm only living as a robot, and no longer as a human being. Being forced into the world of "moving forward", and "high expectations", and being busy!
It hurts to have to wake up, not because I have something to look forward to, but because I have to live, and read, and continue, etc.
My life is all about music, and now I don't have the same capacity to care about others, to enjoy life as it was, or to even care about going out into the world.
Life is now a shattered glass, a net, a golden box, where all the companionship I could ever learn to appreciate is that of my computer and my external hard drive.
He made me laugh, he showed me that blind people are capable, and he made me feel the sensation that someone actually valued me and cared about what I had to say. He made me feel as an equal, a girl, not a "blind girl".
We would spend a lot of good times together, in spite of our tendency to argue. We would laugh and joke around, and a world with only us two would be so wonderful, as we've been through those times where I thought that was all we had.
His hugs and way of loving are something of great value, and I'll never forget those! And it helps to know that others feel the same about people in their lives.
And even though I know he'll never be able to see what he means to me, I will always carry him in a special place in my heart.